Cooking with your kids...Big Family Solution...Step Stools at the Island
Big D loves to cook. I love that he loves to cook :) It is not my favorite thing. I also love that he cooks with all the kids. From the time that they can sit up, they have a spoon in hand, and a bowl between their legs! The very first cooking "job" is mixer! Always. I have pictures and cherished memories of every single one of my babies at their start in the kitchen with Daddy! Adorned in a tiny apron and mixing on the counter with a huge smile and sometimes even a mess!
Wednesday, February 16, 2022
Friday, June 17, 2016
Big Family Groceries
What do you get with grocery shopping for a large family?
- 2 overly full shopping carts. **No room for the kids!**
- Shocked checker..."You had all this in that basket?" Yes! It comes to the check out very well organized and after bagging, it never goes back in...More shopping carts getting to the car...I mean "Big Red Van"! The checker, not so much asking, but telling me..."YOU need help out."
- $310 with savings knocked down to $254!! We'll take it!
- Grocery receipt that is taller than the kids!
- At home...everyone helps and everyone has a job. Even the tinies can help get the cans on the shelf!
We had a record shopping trip today! 1.5 hrs from start to getting home!
I have to admit, it was because of 2 reasons. The kids were quite well behaved!! Yay! And we teamed up...2 adults is always helpful. Why is it that we buy this much food, and still have to come back next week! Guess we have to keep feeding all those squirts.
Monday, June 13, 2016
Strawberry Fun
Strawberries are a summer favorite around here.
We have an entire garden bed devoted to them.
And this is OUR year for strawberries.
Apparently the strawberry plant is one that has its
best crop after a couple years of good growing.
The last few years have been...
"Who wants a bite of THE strawberry?"
As all 8 of us crave a homegrown strawberry, that ONE cherished bite gets awfully small! Even so, the excitement it
brings is contagious and that ONE tiny bite is
savored and giggled over.
So THIS year, the strawberry garden is huge, lush and towering with plants. Then, suddenly, the knee high bushes bust forth with what feels like hundreds of gorgeous white flowers! Talk about EXCITEMENT! The girls have been screaming in delight about the state of the strawberry bushes. Of course in our excitement, we counted blooms and have estimated about 400 strawberries. Just think, no more piddly little minuscule bites, but most likely a bowl full each!
The beautiful blooms quickly turn to actual strawberries, and at the first sign of "Red" the WAR is on. Yes, this is WAR!
We have much invested in these precious berries and we ALL want to eat them!
The war is against the bugs and birds! The plan is to place berry shaped rocks to deter the predators.
So we send our Little P to collect berry sized rocks
while I hunt down red paint.
Now we have a family activity!
Yes, even the babies get to paint rocks, why not?
We have much invested in these precious berries and we ALL want to eat them!
The war is against the bugs and birds! The plan is to place berry shaped rocks to deter the predators.
So we send our Little P to collect berry sized rocks
while I hunt down red paint.
Now we have a family activity!
Yes, even the babies get to paint rocks, why not?
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Big Family Getting Bigger...
Then as you get into it, you find that it is really hard to find special invitations, decorations and especially keepsakes that are for adoption parties. If you are doing an international adoption, there seem to be more options. I loved the special adoption announcements that are region specific...so cute and special. But if you have been fostering a child and they are not a baby anymore, it is just really hard to find an invitation
or even an appropriate announcement.
Our family is adopting this week ( I shouldn't be blogging right now!)
& I'm knee deep in planning, cleaning & decorating.
This is our 4th adoption through the county foster system.
I pulled out decorations from our very first adoption party, and at the time,
I didn't realize I'd be using them this much :) So glad I saved it.
I spent hours designing our invitations and decorations. In the process, I have made a thumbprint guestbook. It is a "Family Tree" which is significant to showing that family is not just blood line, but more than that. Parents and even adopted kids can look back for years to come and see all the people who love & care for them.
I am so glad that I did this for our first adoption as I now have one for
every little darling we have adopted! I have made a few for friends.
The custom "Thumbprint Family Tree" is now for sale
so others can have this special keepsake. This makes a wonderful gift too. Enjoy :)
& I'm knee deep in planning, cleaning & decorating.
This is our 4th adoption through the county foster system.
I pulled out decorations from our very first adoption party, and at the time,
I didn't realize I'd be using them this much :) So glad I saved it.
I spent hours designing our invitations and decorations. In the process, I have made a thumbprint guestbook. It is a "Family Tree" which is significant to showing that family is not just blood line, but more than that. Parents and even adopted kids can look back for years to come and see all the people who love & care for them.
I am so glad that I did this for our first adoption as I now have one for
every little darling we have adopted! I have made a few for friends.
The custom "Thumbprint Family Tree" is now for sale
so others can have this special keepsake. This makes a wonderful gift too. Enjoy :)
Monday, April 27, 2015
PLEASE, Flush The Toilet!
I had an epiphany last night. :)
I don't know about you, but I have 2 kids in my home that rarely flush the toilet. No matter how much I ask, plead, beg, or bribe, it just doesn't happen often enough!
What's the big deal? Well, if you have this problem, you know. No flushing leads to a stinky bathroom & a hard to clean toilet. Both drive me nuts!
Admission...my nose is my nemesis. If I had a super power, it would be my incredible sense of smell. However, I do not yet know what benefit this holds for me. So far, it seems to be my down fall. Think about it;
-he who smelt it dealt it (Yikes...)
-if you smell the poopy first, you change it (Bummer for Me)
-I dislike foods with a strong smell (Sometimes Sad)
Needless to say, unflushed toilets bother me. And on to my discovery~

Do you feel like you have more patience and grace when you understand what and why your kids do things? I'm always asking the kids to think about what they are doing, but sometimes I need to slow down and really pay attention to the kids so that I can better understand each of them!
Thursday, January 22, 2015
Tooth Fairy Trickery

Well, it may surprise you to know that the more kids you have, the busier she is! Surprisingly, it can take days for that beloved fairy to show up!
The older kids at our home know this well and have forewarned the newbies. They confidently inform the younger kids that the longer you wait, the more money you can get! Sometimes it shows up all glittery and sparkly and often with a special note!
Little G, determined as she is, pulled her newest loose tooth yesterday on January 1st. She was gravely warned that this could be a VERY busy tooth day!! So this morning when she came stomping into my room yelling, "Mommy, LOOK!!",
I just calmly said to her, "Oh honey, you know the Tooth Fairy was very busy last night." Little G was quite disturbed and I realized she had something else to say. She finally got out that the Tooth Fairy had come...but had not taken her tooth, but had instead left her someone else's tooth too!! I looked and noticed that her tooth had dried out and split in two. I tried to explain this to her, but she was convinced that it was someone else's tooth. Since we hold onto teeth for days at a time I, of course, already knew that as teeth dry out, they crack.
She whined about the Tooth Fairy all day. She was so very let down. But we reassured her that the Tooth Fairy would return! Hope she isn't as disappointed next time.

She whined about the Tooth Fairy all day. She was so very let down. But we reassured her that the Tooth Fairy would return! Hope she isn't as disappointed next time.
Monday, April 14, 2014
25 Percent of Colorado Foster Kids Being Heavily Medicated?
An article in today's 7-News online addition showed that 25 percent of Colorado foster kids are on psychotropic medications. (Click For Article) As a foster parent in Adams County, I have to say that this does not surprise me, but it did make me take a second look at the situation.
What We Know: Over the past 5 years, we have had over 16 children through our home. Not one has come to us on medications and we have never requested medication for any of them. I don't say this to claim that medicating is innately wrong, but Jennifer and I see it as a very last resort. We have had, and still
have children who have behavioral issues that definitely push into the realm of bipolar and have had friends with children who were schizophrenic and the claim by "officials" (whoever they are) that this is caused by extreme trauma is well founded. The vast majority of children who have been in our home have been traumatized. Some of these kids see and experience things that we could only imagine but even those who have not dealt with physical or emotional abuse or even neglect were still traumatized the day they were removed from their parents. If they are in the system, it's because their little lives are screwed up and their hearts a broken. Many people see medicating as the only way to overcome the acting out that occures because of this.
Our Take: The fact is that there is a lot of hurting in our world and the kids in the foster system are the result of this hurt. A pastor of ours used to say "hurting people hurt people", and it's true. These kids were hurt because their parents were hurt somewhere along the way and the chain probably doesn't end there. This is a problem that goes way beyond drugs, therapy or government intervention. When the Bible says " . . . and the greatest of these is love (I Cor. 13:13) it is speaking to all of us whether you believe in God or not. The fact is that Love is the only thing that will ever fix this problem. It takes society reaching out to the hurting and lost and caring for them. And no, I'm not trying to say that just loving a broken kid will fix them. It's much deeper than that. It takes generations of love to overcome and change the paths these kids are on so that the cycle does not continue.
What We Do: What Jennifer and I do every day and will continue doing as long as we are blessed with the patience to do so is to love these kids, love their birth families and love everyone involved. Sometimes this means fighting for what is right. Sometimes this may mean medicating a child. But it is our belief that God does not want to see any of these kids get lost. For that reason we will continue working to "Heal these Little Hearts".
have children who have behavioral issues that definitely push into the realm of bipolar and have had friends with children who were schizophrenic and the claim by "officials" (whoever they are) that this is caused by extreme trauma is well founded. The vast majority of children who have been in our home have been traumatized. Some of these kids see and experience things that we could only imagine but even those who have not dealt with physical or emotional abuse or even neglect were still traumatized the day they were removed from their parents. If they are in the system, it's because their little lives are screwed up and their hearts a broken. Many people see medicating as the only way to overcome the acting out that occures because of this.
Our Take: The fact is that there is a lot of hurting in our world and the kids in the foster system are the result of this hurt. A pastor of ours used to say "hurting people hurt people", and it's true. These kids were hurt because their parents were hurt somewhere along the way and the chain probably doesn't end there. This is a problem that goes way beyond drugs, therapy or government intervention. When the Bible says " . . . and the greatest of these is love (I Cor. 13:13) it is speaking to all of us whether you believe in God or not. The fact is that Love is the only thing that will ever fix this problem. It takes society reaching out to the hurting and lost and caring for them. And no, I'm not trying to say that just loving a broken kid will fix them. It's much deeper than that. It takes generations of love to overcome and change the paths these kids are on so that the cycle does not continue.
What We Do: What Jennifer and I do every day and will continue doing as long as we are blessed with the patience to do so is to love these kids, love their birth families and love everyone involved. Sometimes this means fighting for what is right. Sometimes this may mean medicating a child. But it is our belief that God does not want to see any of these kids get lost. For that reason we will continue working to "Heal these Little Hearts".
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