Monday, March 31, 2014

Healing Little Hearts


In developing Big Family Solutions, we have come to the conclusion, that we want our business to be so much more than a "Business"!  What is it that we stand for; what drives us to sell what we sell, and write what we write?  Dan's been reading "Art of the Start" by Guy Kawasaki and he talks about mantras.  A mantra can be explained as a word or group of words that is considered as "An expression of being or what is inherently true in you", and reciting it can be crucial to maintaining the order of it.  Wow, that's kind of alot :)   But simply put, we do have something that drives us, and a passion where our hearts lie! With that thought, we have decided that our mantra is "Healing Little Hearts".

As Dan mentioned in our first post, we have 5 girls, with 1 adopted and 2 in the process of adopting (not to mention the 13 other kiddos that we have called ours in the last 4 yrs).  It's not too hard to figure out that our hearts lie in Foster care and Adoption!  

So what does "Healing Little Hearts" mean to us?  Obviously, children that are in foster care or adoptive homes, come from situations that are less than fabulous.  And, no matter what their history is, they have greatly hurting hearts from, at the minimum, their tiny lives being pulled from everything that was familiar.  Every child entering foster care or adoption has a hurting heart and is in dire need of healing.  

Well, needless to say, Dan and I care deeply for these kids and open our home to as many as we can.  However, our desire to help "Heal Little Hearts" goes farther than our four walls.  We understand that we can only physically touch so many Little Hearts, and there are so many more out there.  They are in homes like yours!  We want to help families who foster and adopt to thrive.  What better way to help Heal MORE Little Hearts!!  We need to join together to learn about our hurting kiddos and how to best love them and to support each other in our everyday living in order to do far more than just survive, but to THRIVE!

What Foster Parents Wish Other People Knew

Here is a great post that explains what we as foster parents wish we could explain to the rest of the world.

If your a foster parent, you will enjoy reading this.  If you know a foster parent, I'm sure you will learn something new about them.

Tuesday, March 18, 2014

Toddlers Helping Around The House

I pulled my basket of clean towels into the living room with the 
intent of folding and guiding my 2 year old, Little S, through sorting & folding. 
What better way to learn folding than with a washcloth!

We had just started, and only got as far as talking about what we were about to tackle, 
when I got called away to the other room. This happens a lot with 5 kids :)

Upon coming back to the living room, I had forgotten what I had been 
pulled from...until my eyes feel upon an empty laundry basket! I gasped!! And 
proclaimed loudly,"Where are the towels?" As I turned toward the kitchen I saw it...

A pile of towels, billowing out of the drawer 
where i keep kitchen washcloths and towels. Again I gasped...starting to say, "who..." Then I caught
 Little S's questioning face. I smiled, knowing exactly 
what had happened! She exclaimed proudly, "I did it!" 

Indeed she had! Every towel from the basket crammed and piled high over her head. She must have worked so hard.
We started pulling swim towels out and I realized that under the mess, she had indeed gotten the white washcloths all piled in the correct spot & the blue ones in the appropriate spot!! 
Well done Little S! This is a great way to learn 
sorting and folding!